Seperate ways,
going together.

Making the end of your love
the beginning of a new relationship.

You don't need to be a couple to stay a family.

Sorting out feelings
should not be left to lawyers.

Even celebrities choose Conscious Uncoupling™ for their peaceful breakup.

Concious Uncoupling™.
How seperated couples stay friends.

When we think about separation, we think about pain, anger, helplessness. But the end of a love relationship  is always the chance for a new beginning. A conscious decision for a better future.

As a  trained coach for the Conscious Uncoupling™ method, I am coaching people before, during and after the process of separation. I will help you emerge from the crisis as peaceful and strong possible. Not to mention, it saves you money from the disputes that can come from settling with lawyers.

Conscious Uncoupling was created by the American therapist and bestselling author, Katherine Woodward Thomas. She has a strong reputation earned by working with Hollywood celebrities, receiving a lot of PR.

Within six weeks, the program achieves the following objectives: Work out with what has happened and get involved in a new (love) life. This method is specifically created for individuals who have been abandoned by their partners, however couples with children can also benefit from it when looking at the long-term relationship and how to interact in a respectful and generous way.

Benefits of Conscious Uncoupling™:

Less emotional and financial burden
Peaceful separation
Quick agreement
Less emotional and financial damage
Friendship instead of anger
Children keep their family feeling
Positive self-esteem
Improvement of life and love situation
Those who are ready to forgive the suffering caused by the partner and to embark on a common path of separation with good will and mutual respect, may well draw strength from this for a new love.
Dorothea Behrmann about the Conscious Uncoupling™ process

5 Steps. 6 Weeks.
An orderly separation process.

Step 1: Find emotional freedom

You will learn how to use the energies of difficult and negative emotions such as rage, hatred, fear and despair, and  transform them from destructive impulses that only hurt yourself and others into constructive energies of positive change.

Step 2: Reclaiming your power and your life

You will be supported letting go of victimization and shift your perspective to begin taking personal responsibility for your part in what happened. We will discover new skills and capacities to cultivate so you can be confident not repeating these same painful patterns again in the future.

Step 3: Break the pattern, heal you heart

You will identify and transform your core beliefs about love and romantic relationships connecting with a deeper truth regarding your own value. You will create a positive self-sense as someone who is safe, loved, valued and honored. Together, we will identify new ways of relating to yourself, others and life that allow you having happier, healthier relationships in the future.

Step 4: Becoming a Love Alchemist

You will feel prepared to generate a positive future for yourself and others involved in the separation. We will find a way to set a healthy intention for a new form of the relationship you will create with your former partner. Generative communication skills will allow you to safely navigate the new form of the relationship.

Step 5: Create your happily-even-after life

You will be supported to make wise and life-affirming decisions to create new healthy structures that leaves everyone empowered. Furthermore, discover how to create alignment in your community regarding the new direction the relationship is taking. As a result, find healthy and cooperative ways to care for the children, divide your property and navigate the legal process.

Consulting forms and fee

The sessions in the Conscious Uncoupling™ process are conducted via Skype, Facetime or phone.

Call +49 (0) 174 1640831 to schedule a free 15 minute telephone call so we can discuss how I can best support you in achieving your goals.

The Introductory session serves to get to know each other and to be familiar with the Conscious Uncoupling process. This session costs € 150.

Following Conscious Uncoupling™ –sessions last 60 minutes (e.g. step 1) and cost € 150/each.

If you book and pay for all 5 Conscious Uncoupling™ sessions in advance, the total amount would be € 600 (you'll save € 150).

Payment in advance only, via bank transfer.


If you ask yourself one of the following questions, Conscious Uncoupling™
is a meaningful coaching for you.

You no longer love your partner and you are considering to separate. But how does that work without drama?
You have been abandoned.
How could you ever be happy again?
You are in the middle of a separation. How can you survive this without harming your children?
You have not yet healed a separation. What do you need to do to overcome this trauma?


Trained Gestalt Therapist, HIGW, Hamburg
Psychotherapeutic HP, Health Department Hamburg
Certified Couple Therapist, HIGW
Wingwave® Coach at the Besser-Siegmund-Institute, Hamburg
Training couples therapy by JoanGarriga, Barcelona
Therapeutic supervision by Prof. Peter Dreitzel, Hohenspeissenberg
Licensed Family and Systemic Therapist, ISPF,Hamburg
Certified Sport Mental Coach, Besser-Siegmund-Institute , Hamburg
Further education Nonviolent Communication according to M. Rosenberg

About me

* 1968, married, 1 dog
9-year professional stay in Spain
Since 2005 Gestalt therapist
2006-2009 member of a psychological counseling center in Hamburg
2008-2011 own practice in Hamburg with specialization in binational couples
2011-2018 own practice in Regensburg
April 2019 foundation of  practice in Hamburg


If you identify yourself with what you read, feel free to contact me at any time and we will arrange an initial introductory phone call. Short-term appointments also possible via Skype. I look forward to meeting you! 174 1640831
Skype: Dorothea Behrmann
Dorothea Behrmann
Conscious Uncoupling™ Coach
Borselstr. 30
22765 Hamburg